Vanities

Hot Seat

November 2023 CHRIS MURPHY
Vanities
Hot Seat
November 2023 CHRIS MURPHY

Hot Seat

In her new memoir, discomfort queen Ziwe gets personal.

"How many Black friends do you have?" It's the question that launched Ziwe—the mononymous comedian, late-night television host, and interview provocateur— onto the national stage. While she made a name for herself as the question asker, Ziwe is full of answers in her debut essay collection, Black Friend.

"I don't love sharing anything about me, and I didn't want it to be personal," Ziwe tells me. "But obviously, you really can't hide behind 200 pages. So you're forced to reveal parts of yourself and be vulnerable. That was a hard pill for me to swallow."

The self-exposure paid off. In Black Friend, she plumbs the depths of her own experience to deliver thought-provoking essays about topics as salient as affirmative action, as scary as getting harassed by a stranger in the woods, and as silly as wikiFeet: "lam not a supporting character," she writes. "lam the protagonist of my perfectly imperfect story." The result? An absolutely iconic book.

CHRIS MURPHY